In the blink of an eye, you end up doing the stupidest thing
on this planet. It might not be stupid or ridiculous to all those gazillion
other people, but to the people that this action was directed towards, it means
everything.
I have been telling her that everything is going to
be all good and well again; things will go back to being how they were before,
and that everything that happens, happens for a reason. You are trying hard, really
hard to keep yourself together, to keep your emotions bottled up and just
keeping your calm. At the same time, you also have to be there for the other
person, whose tears are your fault. She might have been reassuring you a
thousand times that it wasn’t your fault, but deep down inside even you know
that she holds you responsible for it. You tell her,
“Don’t cry because it is over, smile because it
happened. Try to find happiness; you’ll find joy and bliss in the most
unexpected things. Life is full options; there is no end to the list of things
that you are good at. God always has a plan for everyone. Follow the teachings
of Buddha. These are immaterial issues. Life has its way of going on. Today you
are crying over spilled milk, tomorrow you will be reminiscing about what
happened and laugh with the heartiest content. Anger is a disease, it controls
you. Anger is
an emotion related to one's psychological interpretation of
having been offended, wronged, or denied and a tendency to react through
retaliation. Just know that I am there for you no matter what.
Stay strong and always try to find out the positiveness of it all even when all
you can see is the negative. You are a magnet, and so far as yet you have been
able to attract all the greater things in life, and you will continue to do so.
You have hit a bump on the road, it is ‘you’ who will drive through it and get
up on the highway all over again.”
Telling her all this, gives you some sort of a
reassurance as well. But how far is too far? You are waiting and holding
yourself to watch things revert back to normal, however this time it is taking
an awful lot of time. The same episode has happened so many times before in the
past, that it has become like a routine that occurs every once in a while. You
are sitting here like the old times, except this time without any fear. It is
just then, when you realize that a lot of time has passed since it all
happened, and you start losing it. You break down, and you no longer know what
it is that will happen. However there is still a little shade of that hope in a
corner of your heart.
Just remember,
“Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is
about creating yourself.”
-George Bernard Shaw
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